In such a context, they are most often geared toward the ultimate goal – an orgasm, which instantly calms them down, making them easier to fall asleep.
But this habit of emptying the genital area too often without particularly enjoying the act is a misuse of the genitals as a function of instantaneous relaxation. It is a “drug addict” approach, where a person needs an increasing dose of relaxation and less satisfaction.
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What is very important is that such men do not learn anything about their own sexuality, because they do not follow themselves during the activity, they only need an orgasm.
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With such a mechanical approach, they do not learn any skill in how to control themselves better, because they have not monitored their arousal and tension, nor have they tried to develop ejaculatory reflex control skills.
Usually this does not bother them when they are alone, trouble starts to occur when their partner suggests that it is too short and cannot reach orgasm that way. They often avoid dealing with the problem, but when they go into therapy they realize how wrong they were that it was irreparable and not a problem.
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It is not a problem if the partner does not mind, and can reach orgasm in such a short time, but if you come before you enter the vagina, or shortly after, or not when you really want it to happen, then you need to work on expanding the field controls.
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With psychosexual therapy and an adequate training program, you will be able to master the mechanisms that will bring satisfaction not only to your partners but also to you, because if you last longer during sex, then you have a wider and richer range of experiences.