We have written about body detox many times, recommending various diets and shakes to help you with this. But what about detoxing your love life? Well, there are ways to do it.
We have all been through at least once “toxic” love relationships with insensitive people with whom we are not on the same wavelength and want completely different things from the relationship. After a “broken” heart, we need detox treatment to recover and no longer be sick with the same mistakes. What should we do?
After you end the relationship, for starters, do not immediately seek solace in someone else. For a while, forget about even harmless flirting via Twitter or Facebook. This will make it easier for you to objectively look at any mistakes you made / did not make in the previous relationship and what you might need to change.
Do not read between the lines
Men are in some cases much simpler than we think. If a man tells you that he doesn't want a serious relationship, marriage, or anything like that, don't try to break the code but trust him and keep looking for it or stay if you feel like it.
If you think that you will “convert” it, the only thing you will do is to prolong the agony of breaking up and not get the desired result. It no longer even exists in romantic comedies.
In a hurry to have sex
Do yourself a favor and wait for sexual intercourse for at least one month after meeting or first meeting. Take the time to really get to know the person better than to “guess” if he or she is real and ready to commit.
The reason why you should wait with physical contact is simply chemical.
There are several myths that turn out to be true, one of which is certainly that most men can sleep with a woman for months and feel nothing, while a woman will surely fall in love on some level after several times.
On the other hand, when it comes to sex, set your rules. Do not fall under the influence of a public that intensifies sexual relationships full of passion and spark. Determine your pace to suit you.
Plan a connection
We plan birthdays, celebrations, trips, so why not have a love affair. Talk to yourself and say out loud what you really want from your next relationship before embarking on it.
It may all sound like too much to you, but trust it can help. How will we know what we want from a partner when we are not even aware of our wishes.